About The Camp
Grieving
children often feel
very isolated
because they rarely know anyone their age who has experienced the death
of a family member or someone very close to them. And their
parents - their primary source of emotional support - are
grieving the
same death. Children see
their parents
sad or crying and fear
that, by sharing their own pain with them, they
will make their parents
even more sad. So they become
protective of
their parents and
keep their feelings to themselves. It is critical to a
child's
well-being that there is someone with whom the child can share the pain
and sadness without worrying about needing to protect that individual
from their pain. If these children can find other children
their
own age who have had a similar experience, they can validate each
other's feelings and lessen their own sense of isolation.
They
can help heal each other.
Camp
Love's Embrace is an
overnight camp for
children ages 7-14 experiencing grief related to the loss of a loved
one ~ mother, father, sibling, grandparent, best friend, or
other
significant person in their life. Each child will be paired
with
a trained, competent, adult "buddy" and will receive the benefits of
counseling by qualified, skilled counselors, and fun activities in a
beautiful setting. Your child's "buddy" is
solely devoted to your
child for the weekend, helping them in arts and crafts, playing with
them in games, and supporting them during the healing circle
times. The children are given the opportunity to express
their
grief through art, music, play, circle time, and rituals. All
healing circles are led by therapists. They are encouraged to
talk about the person, share their stories, and embrace the memories of
their loved one. The weekend's activities are all designed to
work with how children are known to grieve - in small doses and often
in momentous ways during everyday activities. Each child
will make their own "memory album" complete with pictures,
memorabilia, stickers, etc., to honor their loved one and their weekend
at camp. All camp volunteers have passed criminal background
checks.
Many
of the camp's
activities are just plain fun.
The camp facilities will allow the children places
to play
horseshoes, tetherball, shuffle board, sing, play basketball, or spend
time meeting with their new friends.
The
camp facilities at the
Lakota Retreat Center
are modern and clean. There are eighteen spacious bedrooms,
each
with their own bathroom/shower facilities. The two
"Fireside
Room's" provide a beautiful space for some of the group activities and
also a place to find peace and relaxation all while overlooking
beautiful Lake Shetek. Meals are eaten together at either the
Retreat Center or at the camp's dining hall. Rain or shine,
Camp
Love's Embrace is a safe, fun, supportive time for children to continue
their journey towards healing.
The weekend closes with a family memorial service
and balloon release ceremony. Each child is required
to have
a support person (i.e. parent/guardian, grandparent, other family
member, etc.) in attendance at this ceremony with them. It is
a
very touching, heartfelt, meaningful, and extremely healing time for
each person who attends.
Camp Love's Embrace
is
completely FREE to any child
who wishes to attend. This is in thanks to the generous
contributions of many individuals, churches, businesses, and
corporations.
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